Wednesday, October 10, 2007

Day 1




So day 1 of my solitary journey is over. For those who read this and don't know, Michelle and I have been married for a little over a year and have never spent a single night apart...until now! This week Michelle is at an executive staff retreat up in Big Bear with her company until late Friday night. So, I have the whole week to be by myself, and some people might love this kind of oppurtunity but I, so far, am very lonely. (Awwwwwwwww...) Last night I worked on some school work and lit a fire for myself because it is finally cold enough to make a fire. I slept in our bed alone, and being alone in a Cal King bed makes it seem 5 times as big as it really is. I think I slept sideways for half of the night. I don't know what I'm going to do with myself tonight. Probably watch some Star Trek and drown my sorrows in alcohol. And by drown my sorrows in alcohol I mean drink one Appletini Smirnoff.

Sunday, October 7, 2007

I Love Being Married!

Just to give an update on a previous post, a couple weeks ago I said that I now have something to say when people ask me how it is to be married. Michelle and I went to a dinner/auction on Friday night and we saw some friends that we haven't seen in a while and they asked how it was being married, and I said emphatically, "I love being married, my wife watches Star Trek with me!!"

Friday, October 5, 2007

Top 10 most important events in history - #9

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Martin Luther’s Exegetical Discovery –
The western world was changed when Martin Luther reinterpreted Romans 1:17. Luther began his spiritual journey as a Catholic Augustinian monk and understood this verse, like all good Catholics, to say “For in it (the Gospel) the righteousness of God (righteous requirements of God) is revealed…” Luther saw the Gospel as being equivalent to the Law. He became aware of his own sinfulness, measured against the Gospel/Law, and was never able to do enough penance to aleve his conscience and feel like he had gained God’s favor. He once told a friend that this verse caused him to hate God, which of course made him go back to his confessor and add blasphemy to his list of sins. One biographer has said that he “beat importunately against Paul in that place (Rom. 1:17) trying to discern what Paul (or what God) wanted.” Later, he had what historians have called his “tower experience” where he determined that the righteousness of God is not what was required by God, but what was given by God, and that salvation was not an achievement, but a gift. Luther said, “Thereupon, I felt that I had been born again and entered Paradise through wide open doors.” (Historical side note: this is the first time the phrase “born again” appears in the historical record) Luther started the Protestant Reformation on October 31, 1517 with his 95 theses because of this exegetical discovery. You might be wondering why I chose this to put on my top 10 list of historical events. Sure its important, but is it worthy of a historical top 10 list for all of time? The Protestant Reformation opened the vice grip that the Catholic Church held over Europe throughout the Middle Ages. It changed the patterns of settlement in the New World. It influenced the founding of the American nation and the ideas that surrounded it. It gave rise to ideas of individuality with Luther’s theology of the priesthood of the believer and gave rise to nationalism when he wrote A Letter to the Christian Princes of the German Nation. He changed the western world with a belief in a universal calling which would later be called the Protestant work ethic. Luther said that God specifically called everyone to whatever job they did. This was much different than the ideas that existed before. Previously people thought that work was a sign of sin, as tilling the earth was one of Adams punishments after the fall. Now people found pleasure in work because God called them to it. The Protestant Reformation lit the European continent on fire for centuries and grew to something bigger than any one man, even Luther himself, could control. The Reformation was a result of what historians call a zeitgeist, basically meaning that it was a consequence of the atmosphere of the historical period and not the effects of one person or event, but Luther’s exegetical discovery was the spark that lit Europe on fire.

Wednesday, October 3, 2007

I hate going to the dentist!

In fact, I hate it so much that I had not gone to the dentist for years, until recently. Once I was old enough to take care of my teeth myself and it was no longer my parents' responsibility, I stopped going. About 3 months ago I decided that it had been too long and so I sucked it up and made an appointment with the dentist. I figured I had been paying for dental insurance for 6 years, why not start to use it? It turns out that if you don't go to the dentist for 6 years, you have a high likelihood of having a lot of cavities. So, I had lots of cavities, 2 wisdom teeth that needed to be pulled and a deep cleaning. I started with the deep cleaning and some of the cavities, but that was a couple months ago and I have been putting off getting the rest of the work done because I HATE THE DENTIST!!! I tried to go yesterday but the dentist gave me the oppurtunity to put it off longer, and so of course I took it. I have an appointment on Monday. Hopefully I'll be done with it after that!


Saturday, September 29, 2007

Why Scrubs is the Greatest Thing on Television

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Scrubs is my favorite show on t.v. right now and I'll tell you why. It is the show that can make me consistently laugh every single episode. It deals with serious issues, too, like the problem with seriously sick people who have no insurance and the issue of faith in doctors who see trauma on a dialy basis. But the reason why I like it so much is that it makes me cry. I dont really cry over much, but there are two episodes of Scrubs that make me cry every single time I see them: the episode when Ben Sullivan (Brendan Fraser's character)dies and everyone goes to his funeral and Dr. Cox thinks he's still talking to Ben. And the second one is when Laverne dies. No other comedy can make cry and that is why Scrubs is the best thing on television.

Friday, September 28, 2007

Why I Love My Wife.

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People still ask me how I am enjoying married life and I love when they do. My problem is that I say "I love it, it's great." But people always stare at me waiting for me to continue and give a clever anecdote. I always panic because I can feel their eyes boring a hole into my soul as they rest their entire judgment of the quality of my marriage on the next words that come out of my mouth. I always default to something like "It's so much better than I thought it could ever be" or if it is someone that I can joke with I'll say something like "Its just weird that there is a girl in my bedroom." But recently I have noticed that my wife has done two things that has made me fall more in love with her and things that I can now use when people ask me how I'm enjoying married life. The first is that my wife quotes Family Guy. My favorite line that she quotes is "That's 'R' as in Robert Loggia...'O' as in oh my god, that's Robert Loggia...'B' as in by god, that's Robert Loggia..." Second, and more importantly, my wife has come to tolerate, and dare I say enjoy, Star Trek. If you asked her, she could tell you who Seven and Chakotay, or Riker and Troy are. So now when people ask me how I am enjoying married life, I am going to say, "Great! I love being married! My wife watches Star Trek with me!"

Wednesday, September 26, 2007

It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year



I love Christmas. It is always the highlight of my year. I actually start preparing for Christmas in September. If Michelle would let me I would decorate in the middle of November and leave the decorations up until February. I love the whole season. I love the long, dark nights. I love the cool, crisp air. I love all the stores when they're decorated. I love the Santas in the malls. I love the caroling. I love the full month of Christmas music on KOST. I love seeing my whole family. I love all the emotions involved in the whole season. During the Christmas season, I turn into a kid again and I still get that same sense of wonder and innocence that I had when I was a kid. For me it is the most joyous time of the year. Its hard to explain, but I get this sense of awe, wonder, amazement, overwhelming joy. It is because I get to celebrate the birth of my Savior, but for me it is something a little deeper, too. I feel like that this emotion that I feel during the Christmas season is a little taste of what Heaven is going to be like. That sense of childish awe and wonder and unadulterated joy.